Difference between casual dating and relationship
but this isn’t always an acceptable or even tenable solution.
It’s easy to say that an orgasm is an orgasm and one should be satisfied with jerking it or using a sex-toy, and in fairness, those ways that the hornier partner should attend to their own needs.
In reality, we will lust after other people or have crushes on other people all the time.
It’s important that both partners be honest with one another, especially in the beginning, about how much of a priority they place on sex and (ideally) how frequently they would prefer to have it.
It’s also important to recognize the difference between being stressed, depressed, tired or otherwise less interested in sex due to external influences – which is temporary – versus a libido mismatch. One of the ongoing issues with discussing sex is the assumption that traditional monogamy is the standard, that it’s natural and effortless; that people who women in relationships reporting having committed an infidelity.
The last thing different views on sex or, worse, finding themselves in an apparent bait-and-switch scenario.
So what are some of the things you should discuss to determine if you’re sexually compatible?